STIs and safer sex
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As much fun as sex can be, there is also a serious side to consider. The number of people contracting sexually transmitted infections (STIs or STDs) in the UK has been gradually increasing since the mid-nineties, with London being one of the hotspots for this increase.
The highest rates and increases in STIs have occurred among heterosexual 16-24 year olds, and the UK has the highest pregnancy rate in Western Europe. Although most STIs are treatable, some have permanent consequences and not all have immediately visible symptoms.
Sexual health is an issue for everyone, regardless of their sexuality. It’s important for yourself and for others that if you’re sexually active you’re also sexually responsible. There are a number of things you can do to play it safer.
First off, ask yourself if full sexual intercourse is what you really want. If you feel you are being pressured into anything or that things are ‘moving too fast’, it’s probably a good idea to step back and have a rethink. Also, if you’re too embarrassed to talk about using contraception, you may need to consider if you really are ready for sex at all. Similarly, it’s a good idea not to get so drunk that you’re no longer in control of your actions and can’t remember what you did and with whom – your morning after may end up even less pleasant.
It is always a good idea to use a condom, as it is the only form of contraception that can help protect you against STIs. If used correctly, male condoms are 98% effective and female condoms are 96% effective. They’re available from vending machines in toilets, and are free from the Union offices, the College Health Centre and GUM (Genito-Urinary Medicine) clinics. Whatever you do, don’t feel embarrassed to get them or to suggest using them – after all, you could regret not using one.
If you are sexually active, it’s good for your health and peace of mind to have a regular check at a GUM clinic. If you have caught an STI which doesn’t have any early symptoms, you can be treated before it affects your health – and you can take steps to prevent passing it on to anyone.
Another way to reduce your risk of contracting a STI is to limit the number of partners you sleep with. Remember, your friends are probably lying about the number of people they’ve slept with, and it’s not supposed to be a competition!
